Renowned entrepreneur and billionaire motivational speaker Dr. A. Velumani recently shared his perspective on how the meaning of marriage has shifted drastically for the current generation, especially millennials and Gen Z. Reflecting on the contemporary outlook towards relationships, he emphasized that the traditional dream of lifelong unions and growing old together may no longer align with present-day realities. His recent video highlights how quick romantic connections often unravel just as swiftly, with impulsive unions leading to equally rapid separations.
Dr. Velumani remarked that modern couples, particularly younger ones, tend to fall in love instantly but also walk away from relationships just as quickly after a conflict arises. This pattern, he noted, is becoming more common, and he urged individuals seeking enduring partnerships to approach relationships with realism and maturity.
"Love at first sight, divorce at first fight has become the norm," he wrote.
He stressed the importance of having practical expectations within a marriage. According to him, the mindset that one's partner must fit into pre-existing roles—especially the outdated belief that women must mold themselves around the needs of men—is no longer relevant. He suggested that those who desire meaningful relationships must release such ingrained patriarchal views. Looking ahead, he envisioned a future where male-dominated societal structures might no longer exist, predicting that patriarchal dominance could fade out entirely by the year 2050.
In the caption accompanying his video, Dr. Velumani shared thoughtful advice for those navigating love and relationships. He encouraged individuals to take their time before committing to a relationship, especially in love marriages. According to him, people should not rush into or out of marriages but instead give themselves adequate time to reflect before making life-altering decisions. Ending a marriage, he suggested, should involve even greater caution and reflection to minimize emotional turmoil and long-term damage.
Demonstrating his well-known dry wit, the founder of Thyrocare wryly observed how, in today’s world, elaborate pre-wedding photo sessions tend to last longer than the marriages themselves. He highlighted the irony of how so much energy is poured into visual memories of a relationship, while the connection itself may dissolve quickly after minor disagreements.
"Love at first sight often leads to a divorce at first fight. That leads to a pre-wedding shoot longer than the post-married life..." he explained.
Dr. Arokiaswamy Velumani, born on April 12, 1959, is a self-made Indian billionaire and the visionary behind Thyrocare Technologies Ltd., a major diagnostic and preventive health care chain based in Navi Mumbai. He also established Nueclear Healthcare Limited, which focuses on radiology diagnostics and operates under the Thyrocare umbrella. His estimated net worth stands at a staggering ₹5,000 crore, making him one of India’s most influential healthcare entrepreneurs.
Dr. Velumani remarked that modern couples, particularly younger ones, tend to fall in love instantly but also walk away from relationships just as quickly after a conflict arises. This pattern, he noted, is becoming more common, and he urged individuals seeking enduring partnerships to approach relationships with realism and maturity.
"Love at first sight, divorce at first fight has become the norm," he wrote.
He stressed the importance of having practical expectations within a marriage. According to him, the mindset that one's partner must fit into pre-existing roles—especially the outdated belief that women must mold themselves around the needs of men—is no longer relevant. He suggested that those who desire meaningful relationships must release such ingrained patriarchal views. Looking ahead, he envisioned a future where male-dominated societal structures might no longer exist, predicting that patriarchal dominance could fade out entirely by the year 2050.
In the caption accompanying his video, Dr. Velumani shared thoughtful advice for those navigating love and relationships. He encouraged individuals to take their time before committing to a relationship, especially in love marriages. According to him, people should not rush into or out of marriages but instead give themselves adequate time to reflect before making life-altering decisions. Ending a marriage, he suggested, should involve even greater caution and reflection to minimize emotional turmoil and long-term damage.
Demonstrating his well-known dry wit, the founder of Thyrocare wryly observed how, in today’s world, elaborate pre-wedding photo sessions tend to last longer than the marriages themselves. He highlighted the irony of how so much energy is poured into visual memories of a relationship, while the connection itself may dissolve quickly after minor disagreements.
Love at first sight often leads to a divorce at first fight. That leads to a pre-Wedding shoot longer than the post married life.
— Dr. A. Velumani.PhD. (@velumania) July 7, 2025
Patience causes lesser damage. https://t.co/A8FcVwuam0
"Love at first sight often leads to a divorce at first fight. That leads to a pre-wedding shoot longer than the post-married life..." he explained.
Dr. Arokiaswamy Velumani, born on April 12, 1959, is a self-made Indian billionaire and the visionary behind Thyrocare Technologies Ltd., a major diagnostic and preventive health care chain based in Navi Mumbai. He also established Nueclear Healthcare Limited, which focuses on radiology diagnostics and operates under the Thyrocare umbrella. His estimated net worth stands at a staggering ₹5,000 crore, making him one of India’s most influential healthcare entrepreneurs.
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